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Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.
Thomas à Kempis (Stoic-aligned Christian thinker)

The Story

Though not a Stoic in the classical sense, this quote mirrors a deep Stoic truth. Epictetus often reminded his students to focus on their own progress instead of criticising others. He saw how people wasted energy trying to fix others, while failing to discipline themselves. This quote asks: How can you expect perfection from others when you still struggle with your own habits, fears, and impulses? It's a reminder to lead with humility and to shift the focus inward.

Key Learning

Before judging others, tend to your own growth. Self-discipline precedes leadership.

Continue Your Journey

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