How ridiculous and how strange to be surprised at anything which happens in life.
Marcus reminded himself that human nature — with all its flaws — should not surprise us. People will be selfish, cruel, lazy, and unfair. To act shocked is to forget what humans are capable of. But instead of turning bitter, Marcus chose preparation. By expecting imperfection, he preserved his peace. Surprise fades, but serenity remains when your expectations align with reality.
Expect the worst in people — not to hate them, but to prepare to love them anyway.
"If someone acts unjustly, do not be surprised. It is as if a fig tree bore figs."