No one can lose either the past or the future — how could anyone be deprived of what he does not possess?
When plagued with regret or anxiety, Marcus would write reminders like this. The past is gone, the future unborn — why grieve what was never truly yours? His Stoic response to suffering was clear: own only the present. This insight helped him endure the death of children, betrayals, and political burdens with steady grace. Letting go, not clinging, was his medicine.
You cannot lose what isn't yours. Time is borrowed — not owned.
"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment."